Why Nice Guys aren’t really nice
Girl: “He’s such a nice guy, but I don’t feel anything for him”
Guy: “I don’t know why she’s not into me, I’m so nice to her”
Versions of this have been said by both guys and girls. Logically, they think that they should be attracted to each other since he’s being so “nice” and doing everything he can to be sweet and caring for her. Trying to be, what in his mind is, the perfect boyfriend.
But he’s not actually being nice. He’s actually being manipulative.